Bryan Bayer of the Authentic Man Program talks about the differences in inner and outer game and which is more valuable for dating.
Personally I think AMP are a bunch of New-Agey fruit-cakes, but that will not bias me against linking to their stuff. Make your own decision.
Go Read Inner Game Vs Outer Game

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5 Minutes of Practice and Joy
It’s Friday, and later tonight, you may find yourself in a spot I found myself many, many Friday nights.
You’re wandering the club, alone, late.
You’re not drunk, but you’re not sober. There are some cute girls there, but you just don’t have the desire to talk to them. You have some [...]