This is a loop that many people that study this area have found. When you get into a sexual rut, you tend to start emmiting a certain set of non-verbals that effectivelly start telegraphing to the opposite sex “not sex-worthy”.
The more sex you start getting, the more you get more of it thrown at you, as again, you’re emitting a ton “sex-worthy” non-verbals.
But this study isn’t about that. This study relates to something else. It relates to a very very peculiar way in which society encourages people to deal with sexual frustration… becoming worker bees. This is of course fueled through the mass media and corporations, but in shorts, this is what the study had found
Ragnar Beer of the University of Göttingen surveyed almost 32,000 men and women for his Theratalk Project, which has found that the less sex you have, the more work you seek. Indeed, the sexually deprived have to find outlets for their frustrations: they often take on more commitments and work.
while…
On the other hand, people who have sex at least twice a week don’t want to work. Only 5 percent of this horny segment seeks out other activities to live out their stress. Beer is seemingly unconcerned by the prospect that workaholics might fall into a downward spiral of all sex and no work. Indeed, the danger is clear. Beer warns, “It’s important for couples to keep a close watch on their sexual satisfaction rather than wait until it’s too late.”
Finally the way society is organized to promote sexual frustrations and personal self-esteem issues, is getting clearer and clearer when you start taking into account pieces like this one.
Source: Spiegel.De