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How to approach and meet women in bars

Posted on 11 August 2008

Two interesting ways to open a convesation with a woman at a bar.
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  1. galarbage says:

    your not because …
    your not because your status is telling you that you are better then that person, the trick is to feel like you have the better status all the time. so when you see a good looking girl instead of looking at the good features try to look for something that is turning you off and you will see you will feel more comfortable talking to that person. tell her its cute how her nose wiggles when shes laughing, because she will feel self-concious then you have the upper hand. its mean but it works lol

  2. galarbage says:

    when your talking …
    when your talking to a girl never turn your shoulders directly towards her, shows that your not there intentionaly for her but just for conversation she will feel alot relaxed and open with you, have a friend walk by and give you statust such as ” heyyyy there he is the funniest man in town “… never tell her she is pretty or she could feel like her status is worth more then yours. kinda like when you walk in public you see good looking people you are intimidated and when you see ugly poeple ..

  3. arkady39 says:

    Good question. If …
    Good question. If the guy is very good looking, then being confident and outgoing might make him come across as too cocky, so great looks go well with a bit of humbleness (but not necessarily awkwardness). More importantly, however, when it comes to women - actions speak soooo much louder than words.

  4. CharlesRClayton says:

    I just asked pretty …
    I just asked pretty well everyone I know whether they like the “Cute and awkward guy” or the “confident and outgoing guy” and the majority is cute and awkward.

    thoughts?

  5. EasyEs says:

    Great tips..Hey …
    Great tips..Hey here is a good tip. Walk up and Say Hi. She’ll say hi back.. awkward silence may follow.. Just smile..and say ” I have to be honest thats all I have, you should suggest what I say next”

    She will say one of two things she’ll jokingly suggest that you buy her a drink etc..

    If she doesn’t say this then you go..sorry that was a trick question that she was supposed to suggest that you buy her a drink. Good way to throw the silence back at her. Go get em boys..

  6. TheShield04 says:

    i usual say “hi” ( …
    i usual say “hi” (with nice friendly smile, and if she looks like she’s open to talk, even if she has her guard up, but sill enough to say high), and the way she replies back will tell me how far this can go….i ask her if she is from town (i live in a city)…then next thing you know we’re talking about ourselves….if it fails, it’s only because i didn’t keep it going. or be cause she just doesn’t find me attractive or is not in the mood…what do you think of that???

  7. kropotof says:

    most effective way …
    most effective way for me is:
    - uau! what is in this bar that atracted such an interesting women as you??

    it works quite well

  8. allanroyce says:

    nice one
    nice one

  9. arkady39 says:

    Good point.
    Good point.

  10. MakiGeraldo says:

    either that because …
    either that because her friends like it (thus exclude the line
    “why do look so different that all the others ” because wou would make her feel excuded from her friends and not as
    you want her to feel,unique, either because she has to be there (most likely owners girlfriend)eitherway,if you see
    a girl that is having fun where youre not,you propably dont fit with that person as much as you think.

  11. MakiGeraldo says:

    look.youre …
    look.youre partially right but mostly incorrect.if you ask me, the best start for this particular video would be : if
    youre in a bar where the atmoshere is not the best ,the poeple are lame,then walk out and go in another bar. : )

  12. GoaTseTung says:

    True but so what? : …
    True but so what? :) You can’t win if you don’t bet.

  13. jazzmanEE says:

    ..or she might say …
    ..or she might say off asshole..hahaha…

    but nice comments

  14. arkady39 says:

    Sure, asking for …
    Sure, asking for opinion is a good idea.

  15. arkady39 says:

    Thanks for your …
    Thanks for your nice comments guys.

  16. mikejj2004 says:

    Best thing in bars …
    Best thing in bars that has worked for me is:

    Can I ask you a question? What do you think of _____?

    It works…

  17. spell1983 says:

    great It’s very …
    great It’s very important the body language and be and funny !

  18. r100991 says:

    God.. You are so …
    God.. You are so admirable. You are so confident, with the eye contact and everything. How do you do it? I bet you get a lot of chicks.I am jealous of your confidence.

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